APPLYING DR. MARK GOULSTON

Following the Thanksgiving morning workout, I bumped into a student at the local FIVEBUCKS coffee shop. In the preservatives (pastry) display was a frosted treat. After we exchanged glances, she announced

“How do you keep from eating that thing?”

To which I responded.” I just don’t”

This reminded me of a great point from a book by Dr. Mark Goulston In his book on self-defeating behavior, Dr. Goulston says this:

Few things make you feel worse than giving in to self-defeating behavior, but few things make you feel better than overcoming it. Like eating sweets the high you feel after indulging in self-defeating behavior is short-lived. And the shame, guilt, and self-contempt you feel in their wake is not only chilling but long-lasting. But if you nip self-defeating behavior in the bud, resist the temptation to give in to it and replace it with a positive self-developing behavior, you will discover more self-esteem and self-respect than you have ever experienced in your life.

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